The more you know your man, the more you'll understand his body and what gives him pleasure and the more comfortable you'll be at exploring and touching him, What feels good to you will probably feel good to your man. It never hurts to ask. One way to explore your man's sensations is to play a game of mimicry-have him touch or kiss you where he'd actually like to be touched or kissed, then mimic his movements.

The most sexually responsive areas are our erogenous zones due to the amount of nerve endings which send signals of the sensation of pleasure to the brain. The most sensitive areas will be his genitals, buttocks, abdomen, thighs, lips, mouth, breast and nipples, back, neck, ears and the hands. Use your mouth, tongue or the gentle stroke of your fingertips (or long fingernails), even your hair, on these areas. Play to all of his senses: touch (your tender caressing, stroking, fondling), taste (place your breasts or fingers inside his mouth, offer him champagne or honey (on you of course), sight (a beautiful, seductive teddie, a bedroom with exotic decor, your looks of approval), smell (your fragrant body, scented candles) and sound (your moans and sighs and bedroom talk).

THE NECK
Tenderly kiss along the sides of his neck from behind his ears, down to his shoulders. Using the tip of your tongue slowly move back up to his neck and to his ears. Gently suck and lick the crease under his chin and the skin over his Adam's apple.

THE EARS
Rapidly flicker your tongue in and out of his ear, or softly blow in his ear. Use your tongue or your finger to trace along the outer edge of his ear.

THE EYES
As he is aroused, there will be moments when he closes his eyes. Use these times to give a soft kiss or light lick on his eyelids.

THE ABDOMEN
Gently trace circles around his navel with your tongue, fingertips or hair and then go up the middle of his abdomen to his chest. Thrust the tongue in and out of the navel or put a little honey inside his navel and lick or suck it out.

THE BREAST/NIPPLES
Some men derive pleasure when you suck on their nipples or gently play with them with your fingertips. This area is not as sensitive on a man as on women, so don't overdo it.

THE ARMPITS
This is also a sensitive area. Stroking, licking and nibbling in this area can cause a delightful sensation.

THE BACK
A massage is great for the back. Start by stroking the shoulders, and using circular motions move slowly down both sides of his back to the base of his spine and back up again. You can also kiss him along the back as you massage, especially concentrating on the area around the lower spine, just above the buttocks. Another technique is to run your tongue down along the spine to the tailbone.

THE BUTTOCKS
Gently massage or flick your tongue on his buttocks.

THE THIGHS
Use feathery strokes, gentle licks 'or nibbles along the inner thigh.

THE HANDS
Thrust your tongue in and out between his fingers. Encircle his wrists with your tongue. Take each finger into your mouth and suck on it, the way you would his penis-which will excite him as he thinks about what is to come.

THE PENIS/SCROTUM
Men derive the most pleasure from the touching of the penis and the scrotum. The scrotum is the pouch like sack behind the penis that contains the testicles – known as "balls". It’s also extremely sensitive, so use light touches here. Some men like it when you take one or both of their testicles in your mouth and suck gently. The erotic spots of the penis are the underside and, of course, the tip. Licking around these areas should cause immense pleasure, or fondle the penis by holding the shaft and moving it up and down. While fondling his penis, use your finger to exert pressure on the perineum, the small area between the anus and the scrotum, and move your finger in a circular or back-and-forth movement. Men also enjoy oral sex. If you are uncomfortable doing it, don’t front. Talk to your man about it. If he helps relieve you of your performance anxiety, it will be easier to relax and learn.